Aftercare Blood Clean Up Specialist In Hampton Roads, Virginia

Aftercare Blood Clean Up Specialist In Hampton Roads, Virginia

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Aftercare responds quickly to situations involving injury or death 24 hours a day. We professionally clean and restore each scene to a pre-loss condition. Aftercare cleans Homicides, Suicides, Unattended & Accidental Deaths: cleaning, disinfecting & disposing of all contaminated items. Decontamination for any make and model Automobile, police vehicles or government transportation.

Aftercare is Virginia's leader in providing comprehensive Crime, Trauma & Accident Scene Cleanup services for Homeowners, Hotels, Motels and Commercial properties in Hampton Roads. We pride ourselves on fast professional service. Satisfaction Guaranteed! Most Insurance policies will pay for our services. We will work with your insurer and file a claim for you. Most insurance policies will pay for replacement of new carpet, paint, floors.......

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(Aftercare cleans up Suicides, Homicide, Death and Unsanitary Conditions) All Eastern Virginia Cities

Bio-Hazard Cleaning : What would you do?

Have you had a suicide in your family, or maybe know of someone who is experiencing a suicide situation now? The question that I want you to consider is this: are you or a friend going to attempt to clean up the scene?

Sounds like a silly question, but stop and think about the scenario for a few minutes and consider how it would affect your thinking process if you walked in on a suicide scene.

Aftercare knows that many families deal with this horrible situation every year. Until you have been in this nightmare you won’t understand what I am talking about. I started aftercare so families would never have to face such a horrible task. Dealing with a death is hard enough; trying to clean it up your self is unhealthy. The mental state is a very fragile thing and can fall apart quickly when under super emotional stress. Let’s present a scenario that aftercare sees many times throughout the year.  You return from work expecting to be welcomed home and there is only silence. As you walk from room to room looking for your spouse, you start to get an uneasy feeling. You call out their name and there is no response, as your pace starts to quicken your voice increases in volume. Then as you enter the bathroom your heart suddenly feels as though it will leap out of your chest, “your eyes widen and you fall to your knees as a scream starts to build in your throat!”

After what seems an eternity, you finally start to come back to reality and realize that you must take some kind of action. You start to call 911, but suddenly stop and hang up. As you stare at the scene, your mind starts to race as you try to rationalize the situation.

Do you want everyone to know they committed suicide? Should you clean up the scene or call a professional bio hazard clean up company?

What would be the consequences psychologically? Where will you dispose of the waste?  As you ponder these thoughts, waves of emotions will hit you like a brick wall. You do not want to find out the consequences of dealing with such a task. Most homeowner’s insurance policies cover the cost for Aftercare to clean and disinfect the scene of a death.

So, what would you do?

Aftercare is here to assist you through this process. Please call us 24 hours (757) 535-4367 FREE ESTIMATES....                               

                                                                        

Aftercare cleans up after suicide in Franklin, Williamsburg and Richmond, Virginia

My dear friend,

How I hate you right now! You stole future memories and plans I had for our friendship.  That trip to Mexico for the summer or our snow trip to Austria.  Who will come with me now? There is just a void now in the space of my life that you once filled.  I keep thinking why didn’t’ I do something, anything but what could I do?  You were smiling one day and gone the next. I never knew just how much your smile was a mask covering the pain deep inside your soul.  Why didn’t’ you tell me?  I could have helped, couldn’t’ I.  Was I never that good of a friend that you couldn’t’ tell me that you were hurting?  Did I contribute to your hurt?  I will never know the answers to any of my questions and that is why I hate you! Your suicide has left me questioning everything I thought I could count on.  Please come back.

Love always your friend on earth.

Sometimes there are no answers to ‘why’.  The death of a loved one by suicide is one of the hardest deaths to grieve and understand.  You don’t Just ‘get over’ a suicide.  The grief of a suicide can take years to process and the hurt may never be forgotten.   There is no letter from heaven explaining why and even if there was, the answers may never help. 

The process of grief after suicide is a slow inch by inch process.  The period of mourning and grief is different for each person and there is no universal scale or measure on how long or intense that pain will be.  Once the initial shock has subsided the range of emotions and feelings is extensive.  You may experience the following:

    •       Shock, numbness, denial

    •       Guilt

    •       Anger/blame                                                              

    •       Des pair

    •       Loneliness and disconnection

    •       Depression

    •       Shame

    •       Searching for the reasons ‘why?’

    •       Thoughts of suicide yourself

Be gentle with yourself during the grieving processing and take each day as they come by:

    •       Keep in touch with friends and accept support - counter the feelings loneliness and isolation associated with grief

    •       Honor the deceased person - Talk about the memories, share photos and memories or keep a journal

    •       Take ‘your’ time - It is OK to do something nice for yourself while you grieve, get a massage or even a day at the beach

    •       Ask for help if you are struggling - Seek professional help and speak with family and friends for support and ways to cope.

    •       Look after yourself - Ensure you eat well, get some exercise and sleep.  Try to avoid drugs and alcohol which will only compound the grief.

    •       Join a support group - Talking with others who have shared similar experiences will help you not feel alone in your experience.

The journey through the grief of the lose of a loved one is a gradual process and can lead to a deeper understanding of life and your own humanness.  The grief slowly gets integrated into life.

 If you need professional suicide cleaning call Aftercare at (757) 535-4367